wife can catch her husband with sold proof. Many wives make the mistake
of hiring an expensive detective or purchasing pricey spy equipment.
However, if you are aware of some of the signs of a cheating husband and
know your husband's behavior and habits well, you simply need to follow
your gut instinct and employ some of the top 10 ways of how to catch a
cheating husband. Most of all, be patient. Give yourself 3-4 weeks of
spying time.
Pay close attention to small details and use all your senses so you
don't miss a sign of a cheating husband. Make sure you keep a log book
of descriptions, dates and times of all the clues you discover. If you
find a clue, make a copy of it if possible. NEVER accuse him of an
affair unless you have concrete proof he was cheating because you may
have to use this proof in a court of law should you pursue divorce. If
you don't have solid proof, many cheating men lie and make up stories or
will call you crazy. Plan your confrontation out in your mind so you
will be prepared and armed with facts and evidence. If you have
children, make sure they are in a safe, protected place. In addition,
don't become a cheating wife to get revenge. It only causes more
problems and will be used against you.
1. Set a trap. Cheating husbands usually cheat when their wife is out of
town. Tell your husband that you are leaving for a couple of days and
then wait, listen and watch. Place a recording surveillance device in
your bedroom or near the phone and then listen. Park in a friend's car
with a hat and sunglasses on and follow his car or wait for someone to
come to the house. Keep a camera, binoculars and a cell phone with you.
Cheating husbands usually take their affair out for dinner and a
rendezvous while you are gone. Give your cheating husband lots of space
to make a mistake. Your husband will leave cheating signs unknowingly.
Make sure you are "busy" or out of the house a lot while you are
investigating. Take a long nap under your bed at lunch or in the evening
or place a long recording digital tape recorder which is voice activated
under the bed. This wouldn't work if you have children or a dog.
2. Watch his cell phone. A sign of a cheating husband can be if he
protects his cell phone with a password, unexpectedly ask to borrow his
cell phone to make an important call. Then make a fake call, pressing as
many buttons of his call log as possible to note any strange calls. Go
to bathroom with phone if at all possible. Watch whether his cell phone
is always turned off when with you or whether he takes unusually long to
phone you back. Note the times, dates and length of any suspicious
calls. Press the re-dial on the phone or *69. This is an effective way
to find out who they've been calling.
3. Place a long-recording digital tape recorder under your cheating
husband's car seat every morning and then listen to it when you are
alone. Please check the laws in your city or state to make sure it is
legal to record someone in your car if they are borrowing it. The same
goes for a GPS tracking device which tracks everywhere your husband's
car goes. GPS tracking devices are now made the size of a pack of
chewing gum so they are easy to hide.
4. Monitor your husband's computer usage. Does he use the computer late
at night or for an unusual amount of time? Cheating husbands frequently
utilize free email services such as hotmail, msn, yahoo, gmail,
hushmail, etc… Check his internet web browser history for warning signs.
If you suspect your husband is cheating, you can install a keystroke
logger which will log every keystroke your husband types, including his
passwords. There are many good ones currently for sale.
5. A sign of a cheating husband could be if he is frequenting any dating
sites, create a fake profile on-line of someone you think your husband
would be attracted to and then start flirting. Many wives have
successfully used this technique.
6. Be careful of your cheating husband's close friends who may cover for
him because of loyalty feelings. Even if they don't approve of your
husband's cheating ways, they may still cover for his cheating by
providing an alibi for him.
7. Set booby traps in your house. If you think your cheating husband may
be bringing someone into your home while you are traveling or out, set
some traps. Put on a clean set of sheets and then place a crumb on the
bedspread. Make sure that a dog or cat don't move it. Then check to see
if the crumb is still in the same place after your return.
8. Get your girlfriend's to help. Sign up a willing acquaintance or
girlfriend to hit on your husband at a pre-determined location to see if
he will bite. It is helpful if she carries a tape recorder in her purse
so you may hear him.
9. Monitor your husband's driving habits for a month. Watch for increase
in gas receipts and monitor the car's odometer to see if there are extra
unexplained miles on the car. Monitor the time he leaves for work and
the time he comes home. You should be able to establish a pattern by
keeping a calendar and noting the times. If your husband claims to be
working late, check paycheck stubs to verify his overtime. If your
husband explains a late return home as a result of having to drive out
of town on business, yet the mileage on the car indicates less than ten
miles driven, you'll have caught your cheating husband in a lie which
may be due to his adultery.
10. Paper signs of a cheating husband can include unexplained receipts,
more frequent ATM withdrawals, and unexplained credit card charges. Note
any strange dates and times. Is there a restaurant charge when he should
have been at work? Check his business deductions if possible.
If you have tried some of the above tips on how to catch a cheating
husband and have been unsuccessful, try playing your poker face. Pretend
like you know something and give him 24 hours to come clean or else...
However, only resort to this after you have tried all other means
because if you accuse him, your husband will know you are on to him,
deny any wrong doing and cover his cheating tracks better next time.
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